Can you make someone like you in less than 5 seconds?
I have been studying ways to make people like you, and their is a simple process that you can do to make someone like you instantly and want to seek your approval. Using an easy technique, you can have anyone you meet like you so much that they will want to follow you. It will make you an instant leader.
I want to break down how this works so you can learn how it is done as well. People tend to work in groups. Each group of people has a leader, which is also called the Alpha. Even when we are in a group of only two people, their will always be one Alpha leader. So when you first meet someone, within just a few seconds, their will be a leader of the two of you. It is always at best to be the Alpha leader for the fact that it makes you more desirable to be around and therefore it is easier to meet people and make friends.
So how do you make someone like you within the first few seconds of meeting. It has to do with seeking approval. The Alpha leader never seeks approval from anyone since they are the leader, but everyone in the group will seek the approval of the Alpha. So in order to acheive your leadership status you must first get any thought of seeking approval from anyone out of your mind. You will never be able to lead if you are following everyone else.
You must get them to seek your approval first. This can be tough for some people, but it can be done to almost anybody. The easiest way to do this is find any physical flaw on them and point it out to them. This can anything like running makeup, something on their teeth, or something stuck to their shirt. I notice it may be hard to find flaw on some people, but remember that no one is perfect and we can’t look perfect all the time. This will require that you become more observant of other people so practice often. Once you spot their flaw, tell them about it so that they might fix it. When you do this it puts them at a low point with you. You just made them look bad and you just met. They will want to seek your approval to make up for it. Good job, you are now the Alpha, but now you have to keep your upper status.
The best thing to do is turn like you are going to walk away, and then ask them their opinion on an issue of yours. Be sure you are not facing them, you want them to think that they are not that interesting to you. Now I can’t go into details about what to talk about but once you ask them for their opinion, keep them talking about themselves and you will have them liking you with ease. Good luck and I’ll keep bringing more tips on these later.